what to do?

Question
I had to leave my home due to my husband's severe drinking problem. I am in the process of trying to divorce him but that's been delayed due to the fact that he cannot respond or participate. I know he can't/won't stop drinking - he's tried everything, including a very expensive inpatient rehab. Nothing worked. He is now drinking all the time and eating just enough to take a cab to the store to buy more booze and cigarettes.



He is no longer able to take care of himself in any way. I worry that he'll start a fire, maybe hurt others, not just himself.



I know I am not the first person to face this situation. What I need to know is what are my options and legal responsibilities?


Answer

Beverley Glazer MA., I

Hi Tina,



It's unfortunate, but sometimes no matter what we say or do, an alcoholic refuses to stop.



As the divorce has not been finalized, I think it's important that you seek legal advice regarding your responsibilities in his personal matters.



Since you're concerned about fire, or the harm he may do to others, you can notify neighbors about the situation. You can also discuss this with social services, but I doubt whether you can do much more than that.



If you feel any guilt or remorse for leaving, some counseling can help you overcome it. However, you've already been through the worst.



It was not an easy decision to leave, but it was a necessary one. I wish you all the best in recreating your new life.



I hope this information was helpful,



Thank you for asking AllExperts,



Good luck!!



Bev

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